[polipapanna]

I had lot of expectations n imagination about sex life after marriage. But it's a diff world n experience . Earlier when I use to hear couples some days don't have sex I never believed . I use to think how come thy don't fuk when thy sleep together . 4 months into marriage me realising on some days sleep n rest becomes more imp thn sex . Friends plz do share ur expectations vs reality


Friends me not sharing this as a problem. Me sharing how our expectations about sex before marriage is unrealistic. Sex doesn’t have that much importance we give it before marriage.

[swon]

its all initial excitement i think though i am not married, then comes all the responsibilities and in that cloud hardly even get time to have sex and other romantic things.

there are pros and cons in both both married life and in single life and nothing is inferior to other.

[rajveer123]

good thread.. repped you friend will help lots of members who are interested.

[luv.anant]

Originally Posted by polipapanna

I had lot of expectations n imagination about sex life after marriage. But it's a diff world n experience . Earlier when I use to hear couples some days don't have sex I never believed . I use to think how come thy don't fuk when thy sleep together . 4 months into marriage me realising on some days sleep n rest becomes more imp thn sex . Friends plz do share ur expectations vs reality

I am going to share my experience about the same, and expect people not to make fun out of it, as it can be the situation with so many of us.



It depends on various factors man.

Sometimes you don't have time to think about sex and the same happens with your partner.
Sometimes you just don't want it. It's all about mood. Again the same applies to your partner.

Even more difficult situations comes is, when your partner is not too keen about having sex, though he or she enjoys it when it happens. It's like, sex is just not their things.

Now a days, these smart phones and similar gadgets, being active on social platforms to make their presence feel also makes the person super busy or away from even thinking about sex.

Or may be just you have watched too much porn, and your imaginations went ahead of what the actual scene is.

Similar is the case with me. I am very keen about sex. I like it a lot. Like seriously, A LOT. But my wife isn't too keen about it. She loves when it happens, but at other times she just becomes very angry if I touch her boobs just like that.
I also had watched too much of porn, and expected a lot from my partner. She wants to experiment, but ends up having just a missionary sex, though that's so good.

Now this has taken a bad turn. I am looking out for sex. I lurk at almost every girl out there who I feel looks sexy, exposes sexy part of their body like sleeveless arms, bust area and all.

It's gone to such an extent, that I feel like having sex with my office colleagues who are very sexy, though they are so good friends of mine. I keep on looking at pics of my college girls, some of my relatives such as my sis in law and masturbate quite often. I have also met couples and girls outside, and backed out every time due to the love for my wife.


Now for you:

Either don't think too much about it, or else talk to your wife for it. Try to spend time with her, and don't think about sex all the time. There are many other ways to reach to sex such as spending quite quality time in each other's arms, talk about both of you, about your bodies. Love her, caress her, else it can be late

Hope you are able to make out today

PS: Masturbating is totally okay in marriages. Enjoy it alone, not too often, when you need it too much and your partner is not in a mood.

[bangali_babu]

Originally Posted by polipapanna

4 months into marriage me realising on some days sleep n rest becomes more imp thn sex .

How about a quickie and then rest?

[polipapanna]

Originally Posted by bangali_babu

How about a quickie and then rest?

Sometimes we do it but not possible always. Few times after reaching bedroom together I keep my phones to charging n see my wife already in deep sleep. She not used to doing household work. So 90% of time we have sex in morning r afternoon.

[Comet100]

Post marriage experiences. Expectations vs reality

Char din ki chandani,…. Phir andheri Raat.

Da whole thing is, at first night on suhaag-raat, how the bride or the groom maintains and decorates themselves cool,....... in dressing, body odors, smell, taste, mood, motto, mouth-odors, desire, flowers, bed-decoration,.... Pooja-thaali with Doodh, banana, long(laving), mukhwaas, Paan, Elchi, Mouth-wash, Gulab-jal smell, erotic musics, few porn clips to make the mood, scent-sticks, music, dim-lightings, new comforters of silk, laal suhaag joda, pinky-pades high quality of paded bra and panties, clean shampoo bath, and silky night-dresses,... paan-beeda of Gulkand n' jaay-fal - mukhwaas- Laving , Elchi, sprinkle of scent and Gulab-jal,.... New dressings, silky-makhmali comforters/bed-sheet, cotton new soft pillows, garlands decorations, and gulab-patti on bed,.. etc

But, sadly,... these all are dissolving very fast,...They cannot keep up the same, they are losing the preparation, mood, motto, desire - all very fast,.... They can't keep up,...treating every raat as their suhaag raat. While ready for making da Love,... to share mouth breath, body and body fluids,..... is now a burden and un-wanted act on both sides,......aurat ya toh abhi-abhi mooti maar ke aati hai,........ Ya,... dhani-Bhayda/ Bhudwa, Love-making ke 5 minutes pahele Toliet mein hug ke bed mein aata hai,....5-15 cigarette funk ke aata hai,....... Chicken ya pyaaz khaa ke aaya huaa hota hai,.... Bhayda, pahele toh Bed mein Fart aur Paad maarta hai,..... Pasine se lath-path ganjii-jhaangiya utarta hai,......... Lady apni fati-purani kutte chaba gayi huyi Bracier nikalti hai,.......... Zhund jaise private jungle se, MC waale, blooded-flooded gande, desi max-pads ( lahu se baas maarte chinthre ) nikalti hai,...

No one takes clean shower / body odors / perfumes / bed-preparation,.. before making out,..... no one dresses and perfumes well,..... Mood-motto-tiredness, perspiration, room's climate in terms of good audio, light, sound, smell, clean silky comforters also takes it coarse ( all r missing ). Lady has eaten onions-garlic and Gents has come after chewing tobacco / gutka, chhinkni ( nose-smelling tobacco powered ), or a rotten egg, mouth-smelling alcohol peg,... have not cleaned mouth/body.... and hair-trimmed their privates,...they say,...... It's a freaking Jungle, out there,... . What to suck ? Where to fakk,...Munh mein baas,.... not in a mood to share saliva,....... Privates smells badly with perspiration, and those drilling-shafting-hammering-banging-penetration fun goes to gutter,......

Wifey doe snot know how to Hold,.. and,...... Main aayi aayi aayi aa jaa,....... ! So? Early discharges even before the act has started yet,... She cums already 2 times before you even start sakking her nipples ( Penetration far away ), foreplay eats it all,...nthg left for simultaneous discharge during the climax ! No fun at chumma-chaati, BJs, fakking, sakking no nthg,..... Bachha jaag jayega,.. awaaz mat karo,... sau jaavo,... kal bachhe ko early school bhejne ko jaana hai !

So ?

Lack of mood, bath, body odors, perspiration, body not properly cleans, odored with perfumes, lack of desire/mood/motto of any fakking or sakking,..., tiredness,
other daily mental stress and internal prejudices, of daily mutual life, also works in oppose making you to come less and less closer,… Poo, Piss and body odors takes its course,... to create repelation,...

Da point is , da freaking Chandani is just for chaar din,…. Also, most desi girls SUX,… and not in that sense , what she should suck, that we want..

And, this is the post married life period,.... ( Ghar Ghaar ki Kahani,... Balraj Sahani !! ), which ( this period - pun intended ) comes very fast than you think,...

So,.. What is the Remedy ?

So rather, do not Marry, and call a girl paying filthy who comes with mood, dress, beauty-makeup, for mood and mizaz,Lip-sticks, make-ups, perfumes, odor cleaned mouth, belly-button, under-arms, pussy-arse, colorful breast covered braciers and thongs, cabret-mood panty linings, jalwe, ada, latke, zhutke, fatke, arousing dancing style and acts, loads of dirty fore-play tricks,... shaved and cleaned pussy, clitoris and nip-tips ready to be sakked,.. Hair, eye-brow and chick-lips well painted and decorated,.. willingness to do anything and everything for you, to give you da best satisfaction in each-every regards,... .. cleanliness and loads of excitement and is now,..ready to open the wrap and drive a new Jaguaar like,.. May charge 5-10K for one night still it's well worth,.. ! Who could ask for anything more,.... well-worth spending of each penny on 'that girl'.

NB : Bazaar mein jab doodh milta hota hai, toh, bein-thok, ghar pe cow ko tame kaun kargea? It needs too much expenses, maintenance and share of room and wealth with the cow,... ….. Stay away from Marriage.

Dial that number and call da girl, ... Yess,.. a call-girl,...... Kisi shayar ki Gazal,... Kisi Zheel ka kamal,.... CG. when in a mood.

Filthy paid money-rate is worth in each every way, only u need to do is proper protection from STDs and AIDs while Penetrating also you can have new food per your desire when in a mood,..




http://pbs.twimg.com/profile_images/542230767909093376/982Yyz9j.jpeg - Eh ! Kya Program Hai,.. aaj Raat ka ?


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[| Priyanka |]

Life is not about sex.

Sex is only part of your life.

[rimhjimriya1]

even i logged in to xossip after 3 weeks......
reason -- i started disliking sex topics bcoz of so much activity here.

[polipapanna]

Originally Posted by | Priyanka |

Life is not about sex.

Sex is only part of your life.

That's what I wanted to tell n get it confirmed by others